Seeing Quarreling in a Dream

General Meaning

Seeing quarreling in a dream often looks like a conflict from the outside, yet it usually touches an older knot within. This dream is the voice of words you have swallowed, objections you have delayed, and an inner space whose boundaries have been pushed. Sometimes quarreling is not hostility at all, but the soul’s way of saying, “Hear me too.” At times it reflects strain in a relationship; at others, it shows two sides of your own self trying to dominate each other. That is why a quarrel dream is never judged as purely bad on its own. The intensity of the emotions, who the quarrel is with, how fierce it becomes, how it ends, and how you appear in the dream all refine the meaning.

In some dreams, quarreling carries a cleansing force. When built-up anger spills out, the soul feels lighter for a moment. In other dreams, the scene points to a tension that deserves attention; especially when daily life has left words unsaid, half-finished conversations, a sense of injustice, or a strained relationship. Seeing quarreling in a dream is less like a door closing and more like a door being slammed open: the sound is loud, but the real matter is hidden inside.

In traditional interpretation, quarreling can sometimes point to argument, matters of property or rights, or an inner struggle within the self. In a modern reading, it carries the psyche’s search for order, the self’s effort to set boundaries, and the wish of buried feelings to become visible. In other words, this scene is not only a conflict; it is also a threshold, a confrontation, and sometimes a call to healing.

Three Lenses of Interpretation

The Jung Lens

From Carl Jung’s depth psychology, quarreling looks less like an event in the outer world and more like a tension between two forces in the psyche. Seeing quarreling in a dream can be a stage where persona and shadow clash. Persona is the face you wear in daily life; the part of you that wants to appear calm, agreeable, and controlled. The shadow is the sum of repressed anger, jealousy, hurt, competitiveness, and the hard edge you have not accepted. A quarrel dream often brings that shadow into view, because the soul wants the silent part to speak too.

Who you quarrel with is not just that person in Jungian reading; what they represent matters as well. If you fight with an authority figure, your relationship with authority is activated. If you quarrel with your mother, your field of nourishment, closeness, and attachment comes forward. If you quarrel with a lover, the anima or animus theme — your inner feminine or masculine energy — is involved. Sometimes the person you quarrel with is a part of yourself you have rejected. You may be struggling with your ambition, your vulnerability, your dependence, or your need for control. The dream calls you toward confrontation on the path of individuation.

For Jung, conflict in dreams is a gateway to transformation. The self is always calling a person toward a fuller life; but wholeness is built not through ease, but through tension. For that reason, the quarrel scene produces not only anger but also energy. If you raise your voice in the dream, you may be nearing a truth you could not say in waking life. If you stay silent, the weight of repression becomes even clearer. Quarreling and then calming down can mean touching the shadow without rejecting it entirely. In short, this dream shows the inner split of the soul and calls you toward a more authentic self.

The Ibn Sirin Lens

In the interpretive tradition associated with Muhammad ibn Sirin, quarreling is often treated as disagreement, verbal conflict, a claim to one’s rights, and the overflowing of the self. In interpretations attributed to Ibn Sirin, quarreling may point to tension with those around you, or sometimes to the outward expression of inner unease. If the quarrel is armed or injurious, the meaning becomes sharper; if it remains verbal, it is often understood as argument, hurt feelings, or a tightness held in the heart. Yet not every quarrel dream is evil. At times, the release of anger outward means the burden within is lightening.

Kirmani often reads scenes of struggle and quarrel through rights, interests, and the desire to prevail. According to this approach, seeing quarreling with someone in a dream may indicate a dispute with that person, or conflict in the area they symbolize. If you win the quarrel, some interpreters read that as overcoming an enemy, resolving an issue, or recovering your rights. Nablusi, in Tâbîr al-Anâm, draws attention to intention and outcome in such scenes: if quarreling ends in reconciliation, it can point to the fading of discord; if it grows and leaves a wound, the dream may warn that words can hurt deeply.

As Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz relates it, quarreling can also be read as a struggle with one’s own ego. In that sense, the dream points less to an external enemy and more to inner turbulence. For some, quarrel dreams relate to property and worldly matters; for others, they hint at a subtle friction with relatives, a partner, or a neighbor. Yet this same tradition also values the peace that follows quarrelling. A quarrel ending in peace is a chance to restore balance. So in the Ibn Sirin line, a quarrel dream is not simply a “bad” omen; depending on the context, it may be a warning, a release, a claim for justice, or a call to reconcile.

The Personal Lens

Now bring the dream back to your own life. Is there a word you have been holding in lately? Have you been hurt by someone but could not say it, or do you feel that you are always having to defend yourself? Seeing quarreling in a dream is often the day-side silence speaking at night. So the dream asks you: “Where did you stay quiet, where did you swallow too much, where did you fail to protect your own boundary?”

Maybe the person you fought in the dream is not someone you can speak to in waking life; maybe they represent a problem instead. Are you under pressure at work, carrying a burden in your family, or feeling unequal in a relationship? A quarrel dream sometimes carries the inner voice that says, “Enough.” At other times, it shows two parts of you in conflict: one wants to stay calm, the other wants to explode. In that case, the dream does not declare you a bad person; it simply makes visible the pressure inside.

One more question matters: how did you feel during the quarrel? Anger, fear, relief, guilt? Your feeling is one of the main keys to the interpretation. If you quarreled with anger, the need for boundaries is strong. If you quarreled in fear, your need for protection comes forward. If you cried after the quarrel, there may be a vulnerable place under the anger. The dream may not be asking, “Am I right?” but rather, “Where am I hurt?” Pause there and look at your own life: in which relationship is your voice most often reduced?

Interpretation by Color

The colorful details of a quarrel dream refine its emotional tone. The clothes worn by the person quarreling, the light of the place, the color of faces, or the objects shown can reveal which area the conflict is attached to. In dream interpretation, colors can signal intention, outcome, or warning. In the Kirmani and Nablusi line, colors help distinguish the harshness or softness of the event; in Jungian reading, they show the tone of contact with the shadow. The color variations below suggest which inner climate the quarrel comes from.

White Quarrel

White whispers that even inside conflict there may be a chance for cleansing and clarity. Quarreling in a white place, fighting with someone dressed in white, or seeing the quarrel scene in bright white often suggests that intentions are open even if emotions are tangled. In the interpretive line of Nablusi, white can sometimes point to goodness and clarity; for that reason, a white quarrel may indicate a visible issue rather than a hidden hostility. The problem is not shut away — it stands before you.

From a Jungian perspective, whiteness points to content approaching consciousness. If the quarrel happens on a white ground, the shadow may no longer be able to hide. This dream says, “Make the matter clear.” Before asking who is right, it is necessary to clarify who said what. A white quarrel is sometimes the conflict closest to peace, because it carries no dark intent and can therefore be resolved through conversation. Still, Kirmani would caution that a conflict that looks white may be easily misunderstood. What appears pure may hide a sharp word beneath it.

Black Quarrel

A black quarrel speaks of a heavier, darker, and deeper struggle. Quarreling with someone in black, or seeing the quarrel take place in a dark setting, points to an unknown fear, repressed anger, or shaken trust. In a reading close to the mystical line of Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz, black may represent the heavy side of the self and the smoke stored inside. For that reason, a black quarrel is a conflict that contains more than meets the eye.

Kirmani would see dark-toned scenes as pointing to matters that are not easily explained, while Nablusi advises caution in such dreams. A black quarrel can signal the shadow of a relationship, a loss of trust, or hidden rivalry. In Jungian terms, this is a direct encounter with the shadow. It may look frightening, but sometimes the most real transformation begins this way. The dream asks: is the thing you see in the dark an outside person, or the hard side of yourself that you have been suppressing?

Red Quarrel

Red intensifies the fire of quarreling. A red quarrel in a dream points to a field where anger, passion, haste, and sometimes jealousy are heightened. In interpretations attributed to Muhammad ibn Sirin, the color of fire and redness often carries the possibility of agitation and discord. So a red quarrel may describe a relationship where words can ignite quickly.

In Jung’s language, red is the raw form of libido — life force, but also impulse. This dream may show that a feeling has been compressed too much and is now ready to overflow. Kirmani often links red-toned struggle to rushed decisions. If the quarrel took place in a red room or under red light, the issue may not be momentary but cumulative. A red quarrel reminds you not to deny anger, but to recognize it.

Gray Quarrel

Gray says the quarrel is neither fully dark nor fully bright. Quarreling in a gray atmosphere may show that you are caught in a situation that is neither entirely right nor entirely wrong. In line with Nablusi’s cautious interpretive style, gray tones carry uncertainty and ambiguity. So the quarrel may be less a clear hostility than a tension with blurred boundaries.

In Jungian reading, gray is the buffer zone between persona and shadow. A person can neither explode nor fully stay silent. This dream reveals the gray areas in a relationship: is what you want clear, or are you erasing yourself so as not to hurt others? Kirmani’s approach seems to encourage the clarification of intention in unclear scenes. A gray quarrel may point to an average conflict that grows simply because it is never spoken about.

Yellow Quarrel

Yellow tones bring jealousy, sensitivity, and mental restlessness into the quarrel dream. Quarreling with someone in yellow clothes, or arguing under yellow light, often reflects comparison, feelings of worthlessness, or a subtle lack of trust in a relationship. In Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz’s transmitted reports, yellow can sometimes be associated with weakness and pallor; for that reason, a yellow quarrel may point more to fragility than strength.

From a Jungian angle, yellow may relate to sharper awareness; but here that sharpness can also produce nervousness. The dream warns you not to let mental interpretations come before the heart. Kirmani would see yellow tones as suggesting matters that grow through too much talk. So the quarrel may have begun from a misunderstanding. A yellow quarrel can also point not to someone else appearing superior, but to your own doubts about your adequacy.

Interpretation by Action

The form of the quarrel is the real key that opens the dream. Who you quarrel with matters, but so does how the quarrel begins, how far it goes, and what happens at the end. In traditional interpretation, action carries half the result; in Jungian reading, action shows how the shadow moves. The variations below show the direction of the conflict in the dream. Some carry warning, some release, some transformation.

Verbal Quarrel

A verbal quarrel is one of the most familiar dream conflicts. In the line associated with Muhammad ibn Sirin, such scenes remind you to weigh your words carefully. If you are quarreling in the dream without shouting but with sharp sentences, you may be carrying an objection that you could not say in daily life. Nablusi is often understood as saying that verbal disputes do not always point to heartbreak; sometimes they reveal the need to bring truth to light.

From a Jungian perspective, a verbal quarrel is a negotiation between consciousness and repressed material. The person speaks, but the soul is really speaking. If the words are clear, the message is clear too: you want boundaries. If the words are scattered, inner tension may be waiting for resolution. This dream sometimes reminds you that a real conversation may need to happen in waking life as well. But let the tone be clarity, not anger.

Fistfight

A fistfight is the more bodily and impulsive form of quarrel. Throwing punches or being punched in a dream shows that the conflict is no longer only verbal. Kirmani often explains physical struggle through power struggle and the desire to dominate. If you are the one throwing punches, you may be trying to solve something by force. If you are the one being hit, pressure, hurt, or withdrawal may be rising to the surface.

In Jungian reading, the fist is the raw form of will. This dream shows that your need for self-defense is increasing. But sometimes it also reveals a fear of your own hardness. In the more inward line of Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz, such dreams may point to the anger of the lower self. A fistfight dream asks: is the thing you are really trying to solve a problem, or the need to prove you are right?

Hair-Pulling Fight

A hair-pulling fight is one of the most intense and provocative scenes in the dream. This image can mean that control is slipping, emotions are tangled, and matters have become personal. Nablusi suggests that in such scenes, discord and confusion may increase. If you are pulling hair in the dream, you may be trying to stop the other side inwardly; if your hair is being pulled, you may be feeling pressure from others.

From a Jungian perspective, hair relates to identity and vitality. A hair-pulling fight touches the field of self-worth; the person is not only angry, but may feel that their value is under threat. Kirmani would likely see such scenes as growing when small matters get mixed with large emotions. This dream whispers that the conflict has come too close to your personal space, and stepping back may be wiser.

Winning the Quarrel

Winning a quarrel in a dream looks auspicious at first glance, but interpretation is not always simple. In the trail of Muhammad ibn Sirin, victory may mean truth becoming clear, or the self overcoming its own ego. If peace follows the quarrel, that is a sign of strengthening. Nablusi, however, reminds us that victory is positive only when it rests on a rightful basis.

In Jungian terms, winning is not about fighting the shadow but about recognizing and managing it. The dream may be saying, “You can protect your boundary.” Yet if pride is hiding inside the victory, that too may become visible. In the line of Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz, the silence after victory matters, because the real point is not winning the quarrel but creating inner calm. This dream may point to progress in an inner struggle, even if no outer battle is taking place.

Losing the Quarrel

Losing a quarrel is not immediately negative in interpretation. Sometimes it means surrender, exhaustion, or stepping away from a needless struggle. Kirmani may read defeat as the inability to speak even when one is right. If you felt defeated in the dream, repression may be strong in waking life. If you received defeat calmly, it may be the wisdom of leaving a useless battle.

In Jungian reading, losing means the ego is loosening control. That is not always weakness; sometimes it is surrender to the greater order of the Self. But if the loss comes with fear, it may deepen feelings of powerlessness. In Nablusi’s line, regret after defeat can be tied to a word or attitude that needs attention. Losing a quarrel can also allow the harder part of you to step back so a deeper voice can be heard.

Running Away from the Quarrel

Running away from a quarrel shows a matter you cannot face directly. This scene does not have to mean weakness; sometimes it means self-protection, and sometimes it means the conversation is not yet ripe. Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz offers a line that can be read as saying that staying away from discord can sometimes be beneficial. Yet if avoidance continues, repression can grow.

In Jungian perspective, running away is a retreat from shadow content. The person is not ready to face it, or the cost of facing it feels too high. Kirmani would say that avoidance postpones a matter but does not solve it. This dream asks: is what you are running from truly dangerous, or is it a naked truth that feels too exposed? Sometimes the dream reminds you that not quarreling is also a choice.

Separating People Who Are Quarreling

Separating people who are fighting in a dream points to mediation, a search for justice, and the effort to reconcile opposite poles within you. In Nablusi’s interpretive tradition, such scenes carry a wish to restore balance. If you are the one separating them, you may be the one who calms tension around you. But if you neglect yourself while doing so, the dream is warning you.

From a Jungian standpoint, separating them is the ability to hold two opposing energies in consciousness. You do not blindly side with one, nor do you mix everything together; you try to remain centered. Kirmani would see intervention as sometimes preserving friendship, sometimes creating burden. This dream reveals your inner judge. Perhaps, while resolving other people’s conflicts, you are leaving your own feelings behind.

Quarreling and Making Up

Quarreling and then making up is one of the most hopeful turns in interpretation. In the approach associated with Muhammad ibn Sirin, peace after conflict may point to the easing of heart-tightness. Nablusi often reads arguments that end in reconciliation as the fading of discord. If you embrace and make up in the dream, the chance of healing hurt feelings is high.

In Jungian terms, this scene means the coming together of opposites. The shadow is not rejected entirely; it is recognized and softened. For that reason, peace may heal not only the relationship but also the inner world. In the line of Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz, reconciliation is read through the softening of the heart and wisdom overcoming anger. This dream whispers that a more mature bond can be built after a dispute.

Crying During the Quarrel

Crying while quarreling reveals the vulnerability beneath anger. This scene shows that even inside shouting there is a hurt heart. According to Nablusi, crying, if it is not mixed with wailing and excess, often carries relief. For that reason, crying during a quarrel can become the release of suppressed pain.

From a Jungian perspective, this is the softened form of contact with the shadow. The person does not only attack; they also see their wound. Kirmani would often read such scenes as the lightening of emotional burden. If you felt relieved while crying, the dream may be pointing to cleansing. If you felt more trapped, the feelings are still waiting for resolution.

Interpretation by Scene

The place where the quarrel happens reveals which area of life the conflict touches. Settings like the home, the street, the workplace, a crowd, or a quiet room change the tone of the message. In traditional interpretation, place shows where the event belongs and to whom. In Jungian reading, the scene tells you which room of the psyche this tension occupies. The scenes below show which door the quarrel is knocking on in your life.

Quarreling at Home

Quarreling at home is one of the most direct signs of inner and family conflict. In interpretations attributed to Muhammad ibn Sirin, the home is read as the household, order, and inner world of the person. Therefore, quarreling inside the house can point to friction with family members, a conflict of roles at home, or disorder within the self. Nablusi often reads household tension as the need for gentler speech.

From a Jungian point of view, the home is the structure of the self. Whichever room the quarrel took place in may reveal the area involved: the kitchen for nourishment and care, the bedroom for intimacy and privacy, the living room for the social face, the door for boundaries and transitions. Kirmani would likely read a quarrel in the home as a temporary strain among the household. This dream may call you to notice the quiet tension inside your family.

Quarreling in the Street

Quarreling in the street describes a more visible, public, and social conflict. In a line close to Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz’s interpretation, the street represents matters lived before people’s eyes. For that reason, a street quarrel may be tied to work circles, social status, reputation, and what others think. If you quarreled in a crowd, the feeling of outside pressure may have risen.

In Jungian reading, the street is the realm of persona — the face shown to society. The dream can magnify the gap between the image you present and the feeling inside. Kirmani may read a street conflict as open hostility or public argument. This scene can point to the need to defend yourself in front of others, or, on the contrary, to an unnecessary burst of boldness.

Quarreling at Work

Quarreling at work is tied to competition, authority, recognition, and the return you receive for your effort. In Nablusi’s line, such dreams may point to strain with business partners, coworkers, or superiors. If you fought with your boss, your relationship with authority may be under questioning. If you fought with a colleague, you may feel that the balance in the team has been disturbed.

From a Jungian perspective, the workplace is the functional face you offer to society. The quarrel here can connect to performance pressure and fear of not being valued. Kirmani would likely see workplace conflict as touching worldly concerns and livelihood anxiety. This dream may carry the question: “Am I receiving what I deserve?”

Quarreling in a Crowd

Quarreling in a crowd is a scene where emotion multiplies and control becomes harder. In the interpretive tradition of Muhammad ibn Sirin, a crowd means many voices and outside influence. So such a dream may show a disagreement that grows through the effect of the people around you. Nablusi warns of possible discord and gossip in events that unfold among crowds.

In Jungian reading, the crowd symbolizes collective pressure. The person may no longer carry only their own feeling, but the expectations of others. This dream can also hold the fear of being misunderstood in public. Kirmani may be read as reminding the dreamer to guard their words. The larger the matter grows, the heavier every gaze becomes.

Quarreling in a Quiet Room

Quarreling in a quiet room describes a rise of inner speech as outer noise fades. This scene carries a private struggle rather than a public one. In the mystical line of Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz, silence strengthens inward accounting. For that reason, quarreling in a quiet room can be a reckoning inside the heart.

From a Jungian angle, this resembles a shadow encounter in a closed room of the psyche. A person can live their harshest conflict where no one else sees it. Kirmani would likely say that such dreams show a hidden issue wanting to become visible. If you are trying to silence someone in the room, perhaps you are silencing your own inner voice.

Interpretation by Feeling

The meaning of the quarrel dream becomes clearer when joined with feeling. The same quarrel may leave one person feeling free, another fearful, and another guilty. That is why emotional tone is the heart of interpretation. Traditional dream interpreters also look at intention, the state of the heart, and the final feeling. In Jungian approach, feeling shows how the unconscious knocks on the door. The variations below help you understand the inner rhythm of the dream.

Being Afraid of Quarreling

Being afraid of quarreling in a dream shows that you may fear the outcome more than the conflict itself. It may be fear of losing someone, worry about being misunderstood, or anxiety about facing your own anger. Nablusi often links fearful scenes either to a cautious temperament or to tensions that are approaching.

In Jungian terms, fear is the ego’s natural defense when it nears the shadow. The person may not want to recognize their hard side. Kirmani would treat fear as a sign to pause and think before the matter grows. If fear of quarreling is dominant in the dream, you may be hesitant about setting boundaries in waking life.

Feeling Relief During the Quarrel

Feeling relief during a quarrel may seem surprising at first, but it can point to a burden long carried finally becoming lighter. In the line of Muhammad ibn Sirin, conflicts that bring inner ease are sometimes read as the breaking of silence. If your shoulders relaxed while quarreling, the words you have held may be finding a way out.

In Jungian reading, this is the loosening of repressed energy. The person feels anger, but also vitality within it. Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz often reads the opening of the heart as purification. Still, this relief should not become harmful behavior in waking life. The dream says, “Feel your emotion,” not, “Cause damage.”

Regret After the Quarrel

Regret after the quarrel shows the weight of what was said and the marks left on the relationship. This scene resembles inner accounting after speaking in anger. Nablusi often reads regretful dreams as a call to repentance, correction, and softness. If you apologized immediately in the dream, the wish to repair is strong in your heart.

In Jungian terms, regret is the shake-up that comes when the ego has fused too strongly with the shadow. The person sees their hardness and pulls back. Kirmani may say that quarrels ending in regret carry the chance to restore balance in a relationship. This dream whispers the need to re-enter a conversation.

Feeling Right During the Quarrel

Feeling right is one of the most subtle yet sharpest details in the dream. If you see yourself as completely right while quarreling, there may be a strong sense of injustice in waking life. In the interpretive line of Muhammad ibn Sirin, the search for rights can be read positively, but sometimes it mixes with the pride of the ego. So being right does not always mean being pure.

From a Jungian angle, this feeling is the ego defending itself. But a deeper voice asks: are you truly right, or are you only sharpening because you are hurt? In the line of Kirmani and Nablusi, the balance between a sense of justice and patience matters. This dream may ask you to defend fairness without burning the relationship.

Feeling Guilty During the Quarrel

Guilt opens the conscience side of the quarrel dream. If you feel guilty after fighting, some of your words may seem too harsh even to you. Nablusi can be read as saying that scenes of regret and embarrassment point to the heart’s need to soften.

In Jungian terms, guilt is the recognition of the gap between persona and shadow. The person accepts their hardness but does not fully identify with it. In the line of Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz, this becomes a gate toward disciplining the self. If guilt is strong, the dream may be asking you to apologize, repair a word, or lighten a burden inside.

Quarreling and Staying Silent

Staying silent while quarreling is one of the most inwardly swallowed states. The quarrel is visible, but there is no sound; in other words, the conflict is inside. In the line of Muhammad ibn Sirin, silence often points to blocked speech or withheld rights. If you did not answer in the dream, you may also be a person who delays speaking in waking life.

In Jungian reading, silence can sometimes be wise withdrawal, but it can also be repression of the shadow. Kirmani would likely say that silent struggles can explode later at an unexpected moment. This dream leaves you with a question: is your silence calmness, or swallowed anger? The answer changes the interpretation completely.

Waking Up Crying After Quarreling

Waking up crying shows that the emotional weight of the dream has remained with you. It may be the night trying to work through a suppressed hurt. Nablusi often connects tears with relief, especially when the crying is not a wail but comes from deep inside. For that reason, waking up crying may mean release and a lighter heart.

In Jungian reading, this is the unconscious softening you. You notice a hardened place within yourself. Kirmani would likely see such a dream as a call to approach a matter with more compassion. If the tears remain even after the dream ends, there is still a door in your heart that wants to open.

Holding Yourself Back So You Don’t Quarrel

Holding yourself back is the active form of choosing not to quarrel in the dream. This scene can carry maturity, but also pressure. In the line of Abu Sa’id al-Wa’iz, restraining the self is precious; yet constant self-restraint can increase inner tension. If you stayed still despite strong anger, that shows control.

From a Jungian angle, this is energy management by the ego. A person does not express every impulse; sometimes that is wise. But if silence turns into freezing, the shadow will find another path. Kirmani’s practical line would advise balance here: swallowing words is not the same as measuring them. The dream asks you to distinguish between the two.

The Final Layer: Where the Dream Touches You

Seeing quarreling in a dream does not close itself into a single meaning, but it often returns to the same center: boundaries, expression, a sense of injustice, and tension that has built up inside. So when you have this dream, instead of rushing into fear, it is more helpful to ask where your voice has been reduced. More important than who you quarreled with is the feeling that person awakened in you, because the dream is sometimes speaking not to the person, but to the wound they represent.

If the quarrel is harsh and hurtful, there may be an overburdened issue in your life. If peace follows the quarrel, a door to repair may be open. If fear is dominant, confrontation may feel difficult. If relief is dominant, some locked-up burden may be trying to resolve itself. This dream does not suggest enmity; it suggests movement: speaking, setting boundaries, noticing, apologizing when needed, and sometimes staying quiet and waiting.

In RUYAN’s language, a quarrel dream is the heart’s way of knocking on a hard door. You do not have to open it immediately, but knowing which room is being knocked on brings you closer to yourself. How did you see this dream: shouting, staying silent, crying, or making peace? That answer is the most alive part of the interpretation.